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A Meditative Practice: Daily Life
I have been considering the whole idea of meditation and how many
times I have heard, “I can get about 2 minutes alone per day, if I’m
lucky.” Meditation to a mom is like having a quiet moment in the
bathroom. I know the feeling, it’s challenging trying to have a
meditation practice that looks anything like what the books or
spiritual gurus describe if you’re a busy parent. Many of use just
give up on the idea of “achieving” that Zen like state.
Here is what I propose; daily life
is our practice. We have all heard that the simple tasks of taking
care of a family like laundry and dishes can be truly enjoyed and a
be labeled Zen like if we just center ourselves in the joy of these
simple acts. I take it one step further, I choose a sound that I
hear at regular intervals around my house. Once it was the toilet
flushing, once it was every time I heard my name called. Then when
that sound occurs I am reminded to pause, take 3 deep relaxing
breaths and say a short mantra like “only good can come to me.” The
toilet flushing is actually a pretty good one, because no one is
actually needing me, it’s just a reminder to pause and breath. This
practice can turn your home into your personal meditation center. At
a “real” meditation retreat they may invite the gong to ring through
out the day to remind the people visiting the center to stop, breath
and be present and at home we can choose one of the everyday sounds
that occur naturally around the house. Just imagine... it is
possible to meditate everyday even in the middle of the hustle and
bustle of family life!
Meditations does not have to be an
illusive goal, it can be as simple as being aware of what is going
on ~ in our bodies, in our feelings, in our minds, and in the world.
Please do not think you must be serious in order to meditate. In
fact, to meditate well you have to smile a lot! During your day from
time to time, remind yourself to smile. At first you may find it
difficult to smile on call, so I will offer this short mantra you
can recite from time to time, while breathing and smiling.
Breathing in, I calm my body.
Breathing out, I smile.
Breathing in, this present moment.
Breathing out, I smile. |